Discussing voting with children can seem daunting, especially with an election around the corner. However, this topic holds significant importance—it fosters civic awareness and community involvement. Engaging kids in conversations about voting not only prepares them for adult responsibilities but also helps them understand their future role in democracy.
“Discussing voting with children is foundational for nurturing informed citizens,” emphasizes Keith Gaddie, PhD, a political science professor. “It’s a crucial way to help them build connections with their community and recognize their role in it.”
Unsure about where to start? We’ve created an age-appropriate guide to help you discuss voting with your kids, outlining key topics to introduce or avoid at each developmental stage.
Focus on the Fundamentals With Preschoolers and Kindergarteners
Young children, such as preschoolers and kindergartners, can benefit from foundational lessons about voting. At this stage, making the concept engaging and relatable is key. “With preschoolers, it’s essential to involve fun elements,” suggests Sophia Fifner, who specializes in civic engagement.
Your primary aim should be to convey what voting truly represents: having a say on matters important to them and their community. Kids at this age should know that there isn’t a “right” way to vote and that everyone has the freedom to make their own choices.
To reinforce this concept, try a simple family game. Dr. Gaddie recommends giving children red items for “no” and green items for “yes.” Ask fun questions like, “Do you think cats are better than dogs?” and let them respond with their colored item. Discussing differences in opinions can also be enlightening.
You can also run family votes on simple topics, such as choosing dinner or picking a game to play. “Keep it interactive and fun,” advises Fifner. “Kids thrive on making choices; think of voting as the next step in their decision-making journey.”
School-Aged Children May Have Inquiries
As children transition to elementary school, their curiosity about the voting process typically increases. Supporting their education at home is crucial. “Kids who grasp how voting works are more inclined to be engaged citizens in adulthood,” shares Eleni Mantas-Kourounis, PhD.
Tie the significance of voting to their everyday life. Discuss how election outcomes can influence their school or local parks, emphasizing that their voices count.
“When they see the direct effects of voting, they’ll realize that their thoughts are important,” notes Fifner. “Voting is not solely about electing leaders; it’s about instilling in kids the belief that they can make a difference.”
Introduce them to books like Grace for President or Vote for Our Future!. Such stories can make elections relatable and vibrant, creating opportunities to discuss themes like fairness, leadership, and decision-making.
Eleni Mantas-Kourounis, PhD
Kids who grasp the importance of voting are often more engaged when they become adults.
— Eleni Mantas-Kourounis, PhD
Middle Schoolers Can Absorb Voting Complexities
As children enter middle school, discussions around voting often arise from peers and media influences. Teach them critical thinking skills to discern fact from misinformation during these impressionable years. Children can grasp deeper aspects of how voting functions, making it a perfect time to introduce these concepts.
Start by asking what they know about voting and where they’ve encountered these ideas. This approach helps clarify misunderstandings and allows you to build on existing knowledge.
“Middle schoolers are perceptive and likely to be tuned into political discussions,” suggests Fifner. “Introduce topics like the electoral college or rights, encouraging them to analyze how these systems affect various communities.”
To enhance critical thinking, Fifner suggests hosting debates on lighthearted topics, like “pineapple on pizza” or “ketchup on hot dogs.” “This practice will help them grow comfortable questioning information and developing their own insights,” shares Fifner.
Additionally, reassure kids they can have different opinions from family or friends, but they should express these gracefully. Learning to communicate their views respectfully will encourage them to engage more with their community as they mature.
High Schoolers Should Form Their Own Perspectives
In high school, young adults begin shaping their personal beliefs surrounding political issues and candidates. Encourage them to ask questions, and ensure you respond honestly. At this stage, complex voting matters can be introduced.
As they approach their voting age, it’s vital to make the concept tangible. “Show them how you research candidates and issues, and engage them in discussions about local impacts,” advises Fifner. “If they’re ready, assist them in registering to vote and make this an occasion to celebrate.”
While sharing your viewpoints matters, affirm that differing opinions are welcome. Consider involving them in your voting journey; discuss why you support specific candidates or explore issues together. This interaction can reveal their values and how they translate that into voting.
Embodying Civic Duty
Children often model adult behavior, so lead by example when it comes to voting. Research issues on the ballot and be respectful of differing opinions. “Your actions can profoundly influence how involved your children become in civic activities over time,” emphasizes Dr. Mantas-Kourounis. If you’re championing a local cause or volunteering, invite your child to participate.
